Keeping Guns Out Of Unsafe Hands

Welcome to Safer Country!
Since 2020, gunfire has been the leading cause of death for children and teens. Inspired by personal tragedy, I am committed to making meaningful and measurable progress to prevent more lives from being lost and families damaged. — Founder/Executive Director Paul A. Friedman, JD
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Safer Country is pleased to announce that Board Member Hala Ayala has recently become the National PAC Director of NOW, the National Organization of Women.
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Our 2026 Agenda Highlights
1) Promoting common-sense gun laws, such as a new and inventive law, the RIFL Act, proposed in Illinois to hold gun manufacturers accountable;
2) Introducing to states, starting with Virginia, a novel ammunition marking system that uses an indelible chemical taggant making it easier to identify shooters, whether they be the military, police, or other people;
3) Improving and expanding our successful “Prevent A Gun Tragedy-SPEAK UP! campaign in Fairfax County and to the whole state of Virginia;
4) Preventing impulsive suicides by veterans using firearms, which are 90% fatal, with the leadership of a retired Army Colonel; and, critically,
5) Opposing President Donald Trump’s assault on gun violence prevention laws, funding for proven prevention programs, the rule of law, and his support for partisan political violence, including political shootings.
The case against Trump is well-known. He began his first presidential campaign by publicly offering to pay the legal fees of people who would beat up protesters at his rallies. As president, he suggested to his top military leaders might shoot the legs of peaceful protesters outside the White House.
Most egregiously, he illegally sent armed protesters to the Capitol on January 6, 2021 to prevent the counting of votes required by the Constitution to enable the transfer of power as a result of the fairly decided 2020 presidential election which he sill claims he won. During the violent attack on the Capitol, he sent out a Tweet that put his Vice President’s life in jeopardy. As well, despite the pleadings from a variety of legislators directly threatened by the mob and his own family members, it took him three hours and 17 minutes to issue a video message to his supporters to stop their violent assault. Even then, his message expressed love for the rioters. Then, four years later, after claiming he never wanted violence, because he used the phrase “peacefully and patriotically” in his pre-riot speech at the White House, he pardoned all the rioters, some 1600, including hundreds still to be tried. Worst of all, he also released the hundreds of violent ones, many of whom seriously injured 140 or more members of law enforcement.
As if that wasn’t more than enough, this past July, Trump sent another dangerous message about partisan political shootings when he didn’t lower the American flag after the murder of Minnesota Speaker Emerita of the House Melissa Hortman and her husband, John. The alleged murderer had a list of Democratic legislators he intended to murder, yet Trump limited his response to one Tweet, which may have been issued by his staff. On the other hand, he and his Vice President, went wild upon the murder of Charlie Kirk. They blamed “left-wing radicals” for the actions of one young man who allegedly murdered him because of the “hate” he expressed.
Lower on his page are a list of some of Trump’s worst anti-gun violence prevention actions. No doubt, we will need to add to it as time goes by.
We hope you’ll stand with us and support Safer Country!
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Safer Country is in the CFC, the Combined Federal Campaign. Our number is 52580. This year’s campaign runs from October 1 to December 31 and is available to federal government employees and retirees. The CFC is one of the world’s largest annual workplace charity campaigns. The website is cfcgiving.opm.gov. The CFC Help Center at 888-232-4935 is available to answer any of your questions.
Please choose Safer Country and help us prevent gun tragedies and save lives.
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Paul A. Friedman, JD is the Founder, President, and Executive Director of Safer Country, a gun violence prevention 501(c)(3), established in Alexandria, Virginia on February 14, 2019.
Born in Bridgeport, Connecticut and raised in Trumbull, Paul is inspired by the memory of his great aunt, Elizabeth Shulkin, who was shot and killed in her hotel room on December 1, 1981, while she was on vacation in Florida. Paul happened to be there at the same time on his own vacation and had lunch with her a few days earlier.
In 2016, Paul was working as a consultant for political campaigns and nonprofits. It was then that he was hired to consult on behalf of the Virginia Tech Victims (VTV) Family Outreach Foundation. This group was created by the families of the victims of the 2007 mass gun tragedy. It resulted in him becoming the group’s executive director
His primary work for VTV was to urge other states to adopt their own background check systems to enable them to enter people who wouldn’t qualify for the federal system. This stemmed from Virginia’s experience with the Virginia Tech shooter. He also worked with the City of Alexandria and Virginia Tech’s local graduate schools to create a tree grove in Chinquapin Park to honor the victims and survivors of the massacre on April 16, 2007.
Ultimately, he discovered the need to create Safer Country.
Safer Country believes in measurable and meaningful results. It has successfully engaged with numerous sympathetic elected federal and state politicians in Virginia.
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In 2021 Safer Country persuaded the Fairfax County, Virginia Board of Supervisors to partner with us to create a Red Flag law public awareness campaign to promote the Emergency Substantial Risk Order law passed in Virginia in 2020.
The project was entitled “Prevent A Gun Tragedy – SPEAK UP!” and was implemented in all 344 Fairfax County Connector buses beginning in September of 2022. Fairfax designed the bus cards – one in English and another in Spanish – and we included a link to a webpage we created to learn about the law and how to contact law enforcement. It also included a QR code for those who prefer using that. It also worked with the government to create a webpage that would track the number of court orders issued every month.
After succeeding there, Safer Country then convinced the Alexandria Transit Company’s DASH bus system to adopt our campaign and substitute Alexandria information for Fairfax County information on the bus cards. Due to its work, the City of Alexandria also created a webpage about the law.
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Safer Country is outraged by and condemns political violence, particularly when guns are involved. Earlier this year, on Flag Day, June 4, Minnesota State Representative Melissa Hortman and her husband were shot and killed in their home. The killer also shot another legislator and his wife multiple times, but they thankfully lived. The murderer had a long list of Democratic legislators in his possession.
More recently, on September 10, right-wing political activist and White House advisor, Charlie Kirk, was shot to death during his conversation with students on the campus of Utah Valley University. No matter the political views of those killed or injured, we condemn these acts. Tragically, they are far from the only acts of political violence with guns in our nation.
While taking the temperature down is sought, it isn’t happening.
President Donald Trump specifically stated that he “couldn’t care less” when asked by Fox News how he would make America “come back together.”
Worse, the Trump regime is doing all it can to put guns in the hands of more people in our nation and around the globe. (See more on ha below.)
Given the environment, the passing of common sense gun laws to restrict access to the kind of guns popular in these types of attack is more urgent than ever.
Notably, on guns and gun violence, in an interview setting, the late Charlie Kirk, said, “We should have an honest and clear reductionist view of gun violence but we should not have a Utopian one. You will never live in a society where you have an armed citizenry and you won’t have a single gun death. That is nonsense. That is drivel. But, I think it’s worth it. It’s worth having some gun deaths every single year so that we can have the Second Amendment to protect other god-given rights. That is a prudent deal.”
Safer Country vehemently disagrees with the bolded part of his quote. With approximately over 400 million guns in the hand of an estimated 100 million of our fellow citizens, we do have an armed citizenry. Yet, having some gun deaths every single year must not be accepted for any reason.
Earlier in the interview, Kirk’s recommendations to bring down gun deaths were “more fathers in homes and more guards at schools.” It’s notable that he was killed by a young man whose father was in the home and more guards at the University would not have ensured his protection. Kirk had been advised to use ballistic glass to protect him at his events, but chose not to use it.
Currently, some gun deaths amounts to approximately 45,000 per year. That’s the number we must presume he found acceptable.
The bottom line is that the Second Amendment was never meant to protect to protect an individual right to a gun. It was a collective right. It states that clearly in the text – “being necessary to the security of a free State.” Further, it is not a god-given right. The Amendment was written by men. Self-defense may be inherent in our nature, but guns are not mentioned in the Bible.
Mankind created laws so people could live together peaceably in groups. Restraining access to guns is one way to do that.
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According to the Gun Violence Archive, of the 5,151 children and teenagers under 18 who were shot in 2024, 1,403 died. That is more than 70 Sandy Hook mass shootings in one year given that 20 children were murdered that day. We can do far more to protect children and teens!
Stunningly, although gun suicides among all children are on the rise, the Trump regime just shut down the special suicide hot line for LGBTQ+ children as if they aren’t worthy of help in a crisis. We are working to end gun suicides by children, teens, military veterans, and active-duty service personnel.
For the last year where numbers are available, 2023, the CDC reported that 46,728 died from a gunshot. 58%, or 27,300, were classified as suicides. 38%, or 17,927, were classified as homicides. 463 were classified as accidents and another 434 were unable to be classified. The statistics also show that, by and large, the states with stronger gun tragedy prevention laws and that are grouped together in the northeast, have the lowest homicide rates.
Safer Country recognizes that nearly 400 million guns are owned by approximately 85 million people, so our work is not about removing all guns. No group is attempting to do that.
On the other hand, we do support temporarily removing guns from people when sufficient evidence exists to convince a judge that the person is a danger to themselves or others.
Fighting Crime
Every year, approximately 250,000 guns are stolen from gun owners and firearms dealers. That’s why Safer Country is championing a Virginia law to prevent gun thefts from cars, and reduce the number of road rage incidents at the same time. It’s time to get tough on criminals by passing laws to prevent such thefts!
Nationally, we are speaking up against the Trump regime’s protection of criminals with guns, such as its pardoning of armed and violent criminals who attacked, harmed, and killed members of law enforcement on January 6, 2021 and its recent order to DC prosecutors not to charge people illegally carrying rifles and shotguns in public.
We are creating a safer country. Join us!
Safer Country is a 501(c)(3). Contributions are tax deductible to the fullest extent of the law.

Paul Friedman with actor Bryan Cranston at Yankee Stadium holding our “Prevent A Gun Tragedy” hats
Paul in the community and in the news.
URGENT: If you feel concerned about your mental health and are in need of special help, call 988, the SUICIDE & CRISIS LIFELINE.


